Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Baby Sign of the Week: AIRPLANE!
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
What We're Reading: Tails
I have to be honest and tell you that both foxes have lost their waggable tails and the pig is left swatting flies with a stump (all signs of love!). A little scotch tape should make them all like new. Not to worry - I've saved all the amputated tails in neat little pile for when I finally remember to buy the tape.
Sunday, June 27, 2010
Using Sign Language With Your Hearing Baby - The Basics
I knew I wanted to use American Sign Language (ASL) with my baby before I was even pregnant. I don't know where I first heard of using it with babies, but something about sign language has always appealed to me. It may have to do with all of the fantastic work that's done with primates (I was an anthropology major in undergrad) or the fact that my girlfriend and I would pretend we were deaf at clubs in college to get ugly guys to leave us alone (our interpreter would explain that we danced by feeling the bass). So when Nate came along, I jumped at the chance to find out more about signing.
My primary goal in using sign language with Nate is to enable him to be able to communicate with us before he's able to speak. Not only is it cool, but it's supposed to minimize frustration and promote bonding. That's enough for me, but I also discovered that there are a ton of other benefits. Hearing babies who sign tend to have much bigger vocabularies, higher IQs, develop both sides of their brain at a higher rate and do better at reading and spelling.
There are tons of books, websites and classes devoted to teaching you how to sign with your baby. I started with Nate when he was four months, (but you can start much later and still get all the benefits) using Baby Signing 1-2-3: The Easy-to-Use Illustrated Guide for Every Stage and Every Age
. I also went to the free classes at the library.
Once your baby starts signing back, it is absolutely amazing. As I mentioned in an earlier post (here), Nate made his first sign MORE at 10 months. He can now tell me when he wants more of something, but he also uses it as a general "I want that" statement. It is much more preferable to grunting and pointing (although there is plenty of that too). Shortly after, he started signing FAN, which was not surprising since he has been obsessed with the ceiling fans all of his life. He has now added WASHING MACHINE (click here for the sign) of all things to his regular repertoire and HAT (pat your head twice). Occasionally he'll sign other things when he sees me do it, but they haven't made it as regulars yet.
The drawbacks? Well contrary to popular belief, it won't take your baby longer to talk (as long as you always speak while signing). You may, however, have to explain 50 to 60 times a day that yes, the washing machine is over there, but no, Mommy is not doing any laundry today.
My primary goal in using sign language with Nate is to enable him to be able to communicate with us before he's able to speak. Not only is it cool, but it's supposed to minimize frustration and promote bonding. That's enough for me, but I also discovered that there are a ton of other benefits. Hearing babies who sign tend to have much bigger vocabularies, higher IQs, develop both sides of their brain at a higher rate and do better at reading and spelling.
How do you sign with your baby? Well, basically, it's a way of incorporating signs into your conversations with your baby. You can use just a few signs (or hundreds) and if you are consistent your baby will eventually be able to communicate with you by signing back to you before they are able to speak. Make sure you always say the word while you are signing it, because you want your baby to connect the spoken word to the sign and the meaning. Here are some examples - you can sign MILK (squeeze your first like you're milking a cow) as you're nursing or giving him a bottle and say "don't you like your milk?"; sign MORE (tap your finger tips together) after you've given her some food and ask her if she would like some more; when he looks up at that ceiling fan you can say "yes that's a FAN" while making the sign (point your finger up and move it in a circle). Here's a picture of Nate signing FAN:
The drawbacks? Well contrary to popular belief, it won't take your baby longer to talk (as long as you always speak while signing). You may, however, have to explain 50 to 60 times a day that yes, the washing machine is over there, but no, Mommy is not doing any laundry today.
Saturday, June 26, 2010
Snack on the Go: Baby Mum Mum
We need more options though! What's your child's favorite snack on the go?
Friday, June 25, 2010
New Favorite Conditioner: Renpure Organics
Thursday, June 24, 2010
The Good, The Bad and The Yellow
The good news: Nate went back to sleep after only a half hour of napping. The bad news: the hot weather is doing weird things to the Huggies tabs and his diaper is now only half on. Also? The waterproof pad that is usually on his mattress is in the dryer after an ugly worked-himself-up-so-much-at-bedtime-he-vomited-episode the other night. As Clubber Lang might say - Prediction: PEE. All over.
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
What We're Reading: Pajama Time!
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Monday, June 21, 2010
Beans, Beans, The Magical Fruit: Eden Organic's BPA Free Cans
The frustrating thing about BPA (and part of the concern) is that it is so widespread - in the lining of most cans, in the lids of jars, in plastic polycarbonate containers, even in toilet paper! So I try to make sure that anything that goes into Nate's mouth is BPA free, in particular the food he eats. It was easier when the only solids he was eating were fruits and veggies. But now that he's onto proteins and finger foods, it's more of a challenge, as I've mentioned before
Saturday, June 19, 2010
Mom Hair
Hello, my name is Amber and I have been haunted by my mom hair. It all started when weeks (or months) ago I was watching the Today Show and they had a piece on "Mom Hair." They kept flashing that teaser promo...DO YOU HAVE MOM HAIR??? To tell you the truth, I don't even remember the content of the story (which I made sure to see after 45 minutes of teasers, news and other stories), but since then I have not been able to get that term out of my head. Mom hair. Because I knew. I knew without seeing the piece that I had it. Nate has been a hair puller for as long as I can remember. As a result, I have been wearing my hair up for as long as I can remember. A quick review of my pictures shows that by the time Nate was three months old I was regularly wearing my hair up in a a ponytail or clip:
Now I have had shorter hair most of my adult life. But my thought was that I could let it grow out and on occasion actually style it and get back a bit of sex appeal lost from birthing that baby. So as the weeks have turned into my months, my hair has gotten longer and longer and more unruly. I mean look at it here, it won't even fit into my clip!
So today I decided enough was enough. My BFF reminded me that before Nate was born I had feared I would turn into one of those moms who let themselves go completely. Well I manage to shower and put on some makeup most days, and since I take Nate out everyday I get dressed at some point. Sure, I no longer get those regular mani/pedis but I need to be able to walk outside my home without the shame of MOM HAIR. So I walked into a nearby salon and had her chop it. AHHHHH....Sigh of relief. I didn't have her dry and style it...to save time and money. But I think I already love it. Pictures will be forthcoming.
Now I can turn my attention to equally pressing issues like World Peace.
Friday, June 18, 2010
Food Thief
It's the end of the week and we have no food in the house. I've resorted to eating Nate's baby crackers while he naps. It feels wrong, but they're quite good and there is something satifsying about biting off Big Bird's beak. If he keeps sleeping, I might attack his puffs next...
Anyone else stealing baby food?
Anyone else stealing baby food?
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Thursday, June 17, 2010
Three Safer Sunscreens Tried: Episencial Sunny Sunscreen Wins
At first California Baby seemed pretty thick, which I hear is normal for safer sunscreens. But I've gotten used to it, and I kind of like slathering the thick lotion on Nate, because it just feels like it will work. I've used about 3/4 of the tube and although we haven't been hanging out at the beach for hours, I think it works well. It has a bit of a metallic sheen too, which makes it easy to see where you have already applied it.
Oh, and I should also share that I got the Badger SPF 15 Sunblock Lip Balm
7/13/10 Update: After using almost the entire bottle of Episencial Sunny Suncreen, it is definitely my favorite as far as consistency, price and protection goes!
6/8/11 Update: Episencial is still my favorite, by far. Episencial, California Baby and Badger all made EWG's Best Beach & Sport Sunscreen list for 2011. I also discovered Badger SPF 15 Sunscreen Lip Balm Stick doesn't leave you with white lips and goes on smoothly.
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Newborn Supply List
I have some close girlfriends that are expecting for the first time. Everyone fancies themselves an expert once they've had a baby. So with my girlfriends in mind, here is my non-expert "expert" opinion of some random things that are good to already have on hand once you come home from the hospital:
For Baby
For Mom
Bigger Things/For the Home
Resources (I'm a big fan of books, but remember to take everything you read with a grain of salt - info can get outdated quickly, may not be right for your family, or can just be plain old stupid)
Everyone's different, but these are the things that really helped me out. Hey, expert parents - anything to add to the list?
Find eco-friendly and organic items for newborns at Nubius Organics!
For Baby
- gauze and A&D ointment (for circumsized boys, but can be used for diaper cream if you have a girl!)
- cotton balls & rubbing alcohol (to clean the umbilical cord stump)
- thermometer and appropriate lube (my rectal thermometer says only to use a water based lube)
- small multi use pads, like the smaller version of these Babies R Us multi-use pads (I used them to line the changing pad cover because Nate liked to have a fecal explosion everyday for the first 4 months)
- different types of BPA FREE pacifiers (babies will take to one kind but not another) - this one has always intrigued me, but I never tried it. Nate never actually took to any really well.
- laundry hamper (you won't believe the amount of laundry you will go through)
- 2 covers for your changing pad, so you'll always have a clean one
- baby nail scissors (their little fingernails are like razors, and I could never use the clippers without cutting Nate's skin)
- mitts (to cover above mentioned Freddy Kruger hands)
- dry wipes (this is more optional - I got used to them in the hospital and when you first get home the baby seems too pure to use real baby wipes on - you just wet the wipes with water)
- lots of soft washclothes (good for so many things: drying their butt after you wipe them, covering the penis so you don't get peed on, cleaning up spit up, sponge baths)
- soap (I orginally used the Johnson & Johnson's, but would now advise against that. Nate had mild eczema and our pediatrician said J&J actually makes babies prone to eczema. We switched to Earth Mama Angel Baby Organic Baby Shampoo & Body Wash
, which I absolutely love, but it's expensive. All traces of the eczema are gone. Our Dr. recommended plain white Dove or Ivory bar soap.)
For Mom
- Motrin prescription (my OB wrote me a prescription for super motrin and it was AWESOME, took care of almost all pain when I was home)
- pads (both nursing pads and giant maxi pads. These Lansinoh ones
are great, but there are less cushier - and cheaper - Lansinoh ones that are good too. I thought Medela's were just okay, and Gerber's were horrible.)
- nipple cream (again, liked Lansinoh - use preventatively when you first get home. Watch the oily staining factor on your clothes!)
- Dermoplast Hospital Strength Anesthetic Pain Relieving Spray
- 100 ct. Tucks Medicated Hemorrhoid Pads - For Hygiene and Hemorrhoids
- Stool softener (use preventatively in the beginning - TRUST ME)
- Nursing bras (I really liked several of these Anita bras, which come in really big cup sizes)
Bigger Things/For the Home
- bouncy seat AND swing (I thought I wouldn't need both in our small home, but I did. They are life savers when you have tried everything and you just want the baby to SLEEP!)
- rechargeable batteries (you will spend hundreds of dollars on C & D batteries if you don't go rechargeable - totally worth the investment)
- diaper pail (I really like my Diaper Genie II Elite Pail System
)
- thick blanket for tummy time on the floor
- Natural Hand Sanitizer (I was a huge germaphope in the beginning, and it's easier to have a bottle of sanitizer in every room than to make everyone keep washing their hands. But I've read that there are some dangers with certain sanitizer ingredients. I really like BabyGanics Alchohol Free Foaming Hand Sanitizer
, and Cleanwell Natural Hand Sanitzer
has received good reviews.
- Stain remover (I wish I could recommend a less toxic option, but I use Zout, which works really well on poop and baby food. Unfortunately, I found BabyGanics Stain, Stain, Go Away Stain & Odor Remover
to be a waste of time & money.)
- Fragrance free laundry detergent (I like Seventh Generation Laundry Detergent)
- Baby carrier (I'm a big fan of babywearing and all of the benefits that come with it. Whether you plan to "wear" your baby or not, I think most moms find themselves holding the baby a ton in the beginning, and it's really great to have free hands to get things done around the house...or maybe even feed/take care of yourself (!). I know a lot of people like the baby slings, but if you get one, you have to be very careful because there have been infant deaths associated with the use of slings. I liked my standard BABYBJÖRN Baby Carrier
, but I always wanted the Ergo Baby Carrier
, which is supposed to be so comfortable on the back and even comes in an organic option. I also liked my Moby Wrap
, but it's not for everyone. You have a lot of options for positions, but it can be complicated learning how to wrap it properly. Also might be too much fabric for a mom of shorter stature.
- mobile (I bought two fancy ones, but Nate always loved the simple one that came with the pack n' play - just three boring bears and a wind up version of Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star)
Resources (I'm a big fan of books, but remember to take everything you read with a grain of salt - info can get outdated quickly, may not be right for your family, or can just be plain old stupid)
- Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care: 8th Edition
(a good comprehensive manual)
- Touchpoints-Birth to Three
(more in depth look at important stages)
- I DO NOT RECOMMEND Your Baby's First Year Week by Week
. It was helpful in the very beginning, but you quickly find that your baby doesn't match up to the mythical "typical" baby. I often disagree with what I read in the book and have literally thrown it across the room a few times. Save yourself the headache.)
- I highly recommend The Happiest Baby on the Block - The New Way to Calm Crying and Help Your Baby Sleep Longer (DVD)
. I recommend the DVD over the book, because you can see the fantastic swaddling technique over and over again through the magic of the rewind button.
Everyone's different, but these are the things that really helped me out. Hey, expert parents - anything to add to the list?
Find eco-friendly and organic items for newborns at Nubius Organics!
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
What We're Reading: Miss Spider
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Sunday, June 13, 2010
MORE!
You're 10 months old now! The entire world has changed for you in the last month. You can now sit up on your own (using an adorable backing up manuever), you can pull yourself up to standing (which you do compulsively, no matter how tired you are), and you can communicate in a whole host of new ways - more on that in a minute. Your father and I can't get enough of you. You are adorable - although sometimes that can be difficult to see when you are arching your back and throwing a temper tantrum - and already have a wonderful sense of humor. It's so fun to see your personality take shape as you grow into the child you are becoming.
After 6 months of consistently using ASL, you have finally started to sign back! This opens up a whole world of communication between us, and I couldn't be more excited. A couple of weeks ago, we were driving upstate to see your grandparents, and I was feeding you some puffs to tide you over before lunch. And right before my eyes, you put your little hands together and signaled for MORE! MORE puffs! Since then you have expanded your use of "more" beyond food - to include requests for MORE books, MORE airplanes in the sky, MORE "Da Da" ....everything is MORE MORE MORE. You also use "more" when you want something different, as in "more something else." Using "more" along with finger pointing, grunting and shaking your head "no" really lets me know what you want. I can't always give it to you (enter temper tantrum), but it's fantastic that you can tell me. Your other consistent sign is "FAN" - no surprise since the ceiling fans in the house were your first love. So basically everything in the house is either MORE, FAN or "Da Da." You love your Da Da!
As I mentioned before, I already see your sense of humor emerging. You think it's quite funny to fake cough, belly buttons amuse you, and funny faces continue to make you giggle. And of course, a well timed funny face within a game of peek a boo can be quite hilarious. Unfortunately, the one thing you did not find amusing was when Da Da put you in the giant cardboard box.
I can't wait to see what you do next, Nate. Let's hope it includes taking long naps. Where DID those naps of yours go? Too much going on your world to nap, I suppose.
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